That's for two generations, maybe 3, before the GCV, but I will accept the analysis of (paraphrasing)
"IFVs work in the same part of the battlefield as tanks and therefore need similar protection" as still applicable for sake of discussion.
Okay, 62 ton weight class. That's heavier than many bridges can take, but arguments can be made to build stronger bridges as part of general infrastructure upgrades. Probably upgrading to 75 ton bridges from 50ton. Upgrading to 100 or 150ton is likely to be seen as excessive, as no commercial trucks are that heavy. Though I could see longer bridges being rated for more, depending on their construction methods.
The GCV was 84 tons, which is heavier than most bridges in Europe can take. No bridges = either needing to swim/wade or have the engineers build a new bridge at each river in Europe. Of course, at this point the Abrams is in the same situation, weighing some 84 tons without the dozer blade. Again, most highway bridges are 50-75 tons, because no commercial truck is that heavy. You'd be reduced to tanks trying to use railroad bridges to cross rivers, and there are a lot less railroad bridges than road bridges.
I'd recommend aiming for ~40ton tank and IFV, simply because those size bridges are much easier to make and place, and all the US supporting vehicles are ~40 tons as well. Any bridge that can support a 40ton HEMTT can support a 40 ton tank. makes supporting work a lot easier.
Yes, assuming that we can make a 40 ton vehicle that can stop a 125mm sabot to the front. If not, the lightest possible vehicle that can stop a 125mm or M829A0 from the front.
The IED requirement is absurd, simply because the insurgents can make IEDs a lot larger than any vehicle can withstand. What was the largest roadside IED found in either Iraq or Afghanistan? over 1000lbs? When the explosion is launching an Abrams end over end,
it's physically impossible to armor against that.
You need to stop the detonation, not try to stop the vehicle or crew from taking damage after the explosion. That means Jammers and decoys, not armor.